Does it work? We’ll see…

Capricorn can be great as s/he is a true and loyal friend. He is honest and has got really great virtues. In my case, I’m talking about a ‘he’!

He is responsible and a great worker as he is ambitious in a good sense..

But  he likes order. Everything has its place. For Sagittarian there is order in chaos. Since s/he (in my case it is a ‘she’!) flings from one thing to another because she has another idea, things can wait there for a while, which does not make her ‘disorderly’ ! Besides, she lives in a house not a ‘museum’! She needs to feel she lives in it..However, Capricorn cannot live in it comfortably. He is stressed, as he finds calm only in the surrounding he is used to.

He does not like changes – he needs to get used to things slowly. Whereas, Sagittarian loves change! Change is the only thing that does not change  She breathes in changes; she can meet new people, can travel all around the world and adapt to different things and people and can try different cafes & restaurants.

He can drink his coffee at the same cafe all the time. He does not need another place. She does.

He loves stability. She loves dynamism. She wants to explore new places; he prefers to go to the same places.

He is realistic. She is dreamy. One of the most enjoyable things for him to do is to wake her up from her dreams!   Her: ‘’If we win the lottery, let us buy a house with a big garden so we can enjoy being outside all the time’’. Him: ‘’ But it would cost a lot to take care of the garden’’ !! 😛

He wants to plan things first. He needs time to digest suggestions. She is spontaneous- wants to do what comes to her mind. It is not that he does not try and cannot accept ideas – he just needs time. It is hard to convince him, but you can, if you try hard & have the will  To have a plant in the house, for instance, can take a couple of months!! To have one wall made of brick can take a year and so on, so on… 😛

He is pretty straightforward. He has blacks and whites – no middle. She has grays. Therefore he can be stubborn but she can be flexible. He is successful in blocking the road- she, in clearing the way..

Taking and giving. Two notions that should be existent in both sides. However, Capricorn likes to ‘take’ (actually who does not??!); whereas Sagittarian is vice versa. The former can survive until the end happily; whereas the latter is exhausted in the end!

Once he gets used to changes he likes it. Once he lets go, everything is fine. Fine?? It is unbelieavable. Amazing!! It just needs to come to that stage!…When you see him enjoy you are happy and think: ‘’What took you so long?!’’  and you want to say: ‘’ I told you so!’’ Careful! That’s the thin ice! Don’t scare him away…You are on a path trying to make him feel comfortable and get used to some ideas rather than turn him to a defiant opponent! You need to think: he is different.

Both are independent but she needs people; he does not.

Effort. Tolerance. Love. Willingness. Balance.

These are the key words.

Sagittarius: Fire

Capricorn: Earth

You make the math! 😉