The Clash! Yes, I know but this is not what I’m up to 😉

For me, this question is more about me being ‘back to square one’ again – you know what I mean!..

Numerous times have I been there! It is one of the hardest tasks; giving an answer to this question yourself. Or is this not: ‘take action to answer the question’ ?! How I have always wished a powerful being helped me in choosing.. My dad was once such figure for me, who hasn’t been around me, just when I started with those questions…Not his fault, some other forces- cosmos – decided he had accomplished his duties and it was time for him to go. Never mind. Sitting there with a bunch of problems, questions and not knowing where to start! Me, back in 1997! You might go with a Turkish saying: ‘jump into the water before you can swim’. This is how you learn. To some extend this is right. But, I’ve always been a kind of person who first wants to outweigh the pros and cons. I can risk, that’s for sure; but I prefer ‘small risks’, small steps if you will. If a make a ‘big step’ know that I’ve had it all until I’ve come to that stage!! Ha ha ha! :))

That’s why ‘big’ decisions make me feel great and excited as I am a Sagittarian and I love adventure, but funnily this ‘having to make a decision’ makes my hair rise, too!!

I love these small hints of cosmos having led my way until now- I appreciate them so much! Thanks a million times!! Paving the way for appropriate steps and taking the sign as a starting point really helped a lot. And I have been alone in deciding, which definitely makes it easier- no one can deny 😉

But what if you are 2?? It becomes more difficult! As if it isn’t hard enough to make the ‘right’ decision, now you have to deal with the responsibility of another person!! And this becomes even more pressurizing.. On top of it, if this person is Capricorn or another earth sign?!Grounded?!One of the most difficult tasks! You cannot just let yourself go with the flow, or enjoy the given decision: you constantly have all the negative aspects of your steps that you can’t even start at all ! Ha ha ha and

Again, you are all alone. What now? Think, think, think and try to find a way…If you suceed, a big ‘congrats!’ Or ‘well done’ is awaiting.

So far so good.(really?:)) What if you are 3??

Difficulty x 3. This tiny thingy makes you get trapped in your decision-making process even more!! One more (or half ;)) responsibility. Pressure. Still trying to decide?? Do it, if you can! Well, I guess then you get a precious medal, or a real ‘admiration mixed well done’ from cosmos!! But not yet, wait! First, the outcome of your decision needs to be successful :). Then you deserve it. But being able to see it now? How? Wonders or miracles need to assist! (Is that too much to ask for?) Of course, it is alot! So many things going around in this world, do you think cosmos is intereseted in this ‘small scale’ matter amongst so many wars, hunger, draughts, human tragedies??!!

You’d better do something!

How this little thing can be the major concern is very interesting…All of a sudden that is the focus point in your life. Everything turns around him or her. It is his/her future that is the most important. You don’t want to ruin that. You do not want to risk it. Even if the risk is small. You do not want to give a decision which has a tiny bit of possibility to be regretted. You can tolerate your own mistakes and learn through them; but you do not want to become a mistake of your most beloved one!! It feels like you cannot take this burden if all goes wrong. Or if this was the wrong decision. You think this would haunt you.

Here we are! Life changing decisions…

Should I stay or should I go?… or more precisely:

Should we stay or should we go?

😉